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  • ์ผˆ๋ฆฌ์ตœ ๋™๊ธฐ๋ถ€์—ฌ ๋ชจ๋‹์ฝœ Day 2 ์˜คํ”„๋ผ ์œˆํ”„๋ฆฌ Oprah Winfrey
    ํƒ€์ดํƒ„๋“ค์˜ ์„ฑ๊ณต์˜ ๋ฒ•์น™ 2024. 7. 11. 08:31

    ํฅ๋ถ„ํ•˜์ง€ ๋ง๊ณ  ์šฐ์•„ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์ง€ํ‚ค๋Š” ๋ฒ•

     
     
    ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋‹จ์‹ ์˜ ๋จธ๋ฆฟ์†์— ๋งด๋Œ๋ฉฐ ๋‹น์‹ ์—๊ฒŒ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์ •์‹  ๋‚˜๊ฐ„ ๋งˆ์Œ ์žก๋‹ด์„ ๋ฉˆ์ถ”์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.
    Stop the crazy mind chatter in your head that tells you all that you're not good enough.
     
    ์ด๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ชจ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ์•ˆ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ๋ฌธ์ œ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
    Because that's the number one I found too, the issue with everybody.
     

    ์ผˆ๋ฆฌ์ตœ ๋™๊ธฐ๋ถ€์—ฌ#2 ์˜คํ”„๋ผ์œˆํ”„๋ฆฌ

     
    ํ•ต์‹ฌ์€ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐ€์ง€์ง€ ์•Š์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    The truth is you don't have anything to give that you don't have.
     
    ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ถฉ๋งŒํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์œ ์ง€ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    So You have to keep your own self full. That's your job.
     
    ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ง„์งœํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ผ์€ ๋‹น์‹  ํž˜์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜์ด ์–ด๋””์— ์žˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์•Œ์•„๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    That your real work is to figure out where your power base is. 
     
    ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์„ฑ๊ฒฉ๊ณผ ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์ œ๊ณตํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์žฌ๋Šฅ์— ๋งž์ถฐ 
    and to work on the alignment of your personality, the gifts that you have to give
     
    ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํƒœ์–ด๋‚œ ์ด์œ ๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋…ธ๋ ฅํ•ด์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
    with the real reason why you're here. 
     
    ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์Šค์Šค๋กœ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ณต์„ ๋“ค์ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    That's number one thing you have to do is to work on yourself.
     
    ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ฑ„์šฐ๊ณ , ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ž”์„ ๊ฐ€๋“ ์ฑ„์šฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ€๋“ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
    And to fill yourself up, and keep your cup full. Keep yourself full.
     
    ์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ฐ€๋“ ์ฐผ์„ ๋•Œ๋งŒ, "๋‚˜๋Š” ํ’์กฑํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค" ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋„˜์น˜๋ฉฐ ๋‚ด ์ž”์ด ๋„˜์ณํ๋ฅธ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Š๋‚๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    Because only when you're full, I'm, full. I'm overflowing. My cup runneth over.

    ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฒ ํ’€๊ณ  ๋‚˜๋ˆŒ ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋„˜์ณ๋‚œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๊ณ , ์Šค์Šค๋กœ๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‘๋ ต์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
    I've so much. I have so much to offer and so much to give, and I am not afraid of honoring myself,

    ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์€ "๊ธฐ์ "์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.  
    It's miraculous when you think about it.  
     
    ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋Œ๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ, ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ž์‹ ๊ณผ, ์ž์‹ ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์œ„๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ, 
    The ability to take care of that, to honor that honor yourself, and that which is greater than yourself, 

    ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์— ์กด์žฌํ•˜๋Š” ์ด์œ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
    that which it was the reason for your being here. 
     

    ์ž์‹ ์„ ๊ฐ€๊พธ์„ธ์š”. ์ž์‹ ์„ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์™€, ๋‚œ ์šด์ด ์ข‹์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด์•ผ.  ๋‚œ ์ด ์„ธ์ƒ์— ๊ผญ ํ•„์š”ํ•œ ์กด์žฌ์•ผ.
    Nurture yourself. Honor yourself. Oh, wow. I'm one of the lucky ones. I got th be here.

     
    ์„ธ์ƒ์—” ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์šด๋ช…์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    There are no mistakes because you have a supreme destiny.
     
    ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ฌ๋ช…์€ ์ด๋ฅผ ๋Š๋ผ๊ณ  ๋“ฃ๊ณ  ์ธ์ง€ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
    Your job is to feel that to hear that to know that. 
     
    ๊ธด์žฅ์„ ํ‘ธ์„ธ์š”. ์•ˆ์‹ฌํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ •๋ง ๊ดœ์ฐฎ์„ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    Relax. Relax. It is going to be okay.
     
    ๋‹ค์Œ ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ํ–‰๋™์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ผ๊นŒ? ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋‹ค์Œ ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฅธ ๊ธธ๋กœ ์ด๋™ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    What is the next right move? And then, from that space, make the next right move.

    ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์‚ถ์€ ๊ทธ ํ•œ์ˆœ๊ฐ„๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์œ„๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    Your life is bigger than that one moment. 

     
    ์‹คํŒจ๋Š” ๋‹จ์ง€ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๋ฐฉํ–ฅ์œผ๋กœ ์•ˆ๋‚ดํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ ์กด์žฌํ•  ๋ฟ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    Because failure is just there to point you in a different direction.
     

    ์ผˆ๋ฆฌ์ตœ Comment

     
    ์˜คํ”„๋ผ ์œˆํ”„๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฒ ํ’€๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š”  ์šฐ์„  ๋จผ์ € ์˜จ์ „ํ•œ ์ž์•„๋ฅผ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ž์‹ ์ด ์˜จ์ „ํžˆ ์ถฉ๋งŒํ•œ ์ƒํƒœ๋กœ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์‚ด์•„๊ฐˆ ๋•Œ ๋น„๋กœ์†Œ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•˜๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹คํŒจ๋ฅผ ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค. ์•„์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์‚ถ์€  ๊ทธ ์‹คํŒจ์˜ ํ•œ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„ ๋ณด๋‹ค ๋” ์œ„๋Œ€ํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜ค๋Š˜์˜ ์„ฑ๊ณต ๋น„๋ฐ€์„ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋‚ด ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ๋ณด๊ณ , ๋“ฃ๊ณ , ์“ฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋งค์šฐ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 
     

    ์ผˆ๋ฆฌ์ตœ ์˜ค๋Š˜์˜ ํ™•์–ธ

     
    ๋…ธํŠธ์— 5๋ฒˆ์”ฉ ํ•œ๊ธ€๊ณผ ์˜์–ด๋ฌธ์žฅ์„ ํ•„์‚ฌํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๋‚˜์˜ ์ž ์žฌ์˜์‹์— ๋„ฃ์–ด ๋ณด์‹œ๊ธฐ ๋ฐ”๋ž๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. 

    ์ผˆ๋ฆฌ์ตœ ๋™๊ธฐ๋ถ€์—ฌ ๋ชจ๋‹์ฝœ#2

     
    ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค.
    I honor myself and will show the world my genuine self.
     
    ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค.
    I honor myself and will show the world my genuine self.
     
    ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค.
    I honor myself and will show the world my genuine self.
     
    ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค.
    I honor myself and will show the world my genuine self.
     
    ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ์กด์ค‘ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์„ธ์ƒ์— ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๋‚˜ ์ž์‹ ์„ ๋ณด์—ฌ์ค„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋‹ค.
    I honor myself and will show the world my genuine self.

     

    ์ผˆ๋ฆฌ์ตœ์˜ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌ 

     
    10์–ต์˜ ๋น›์ด๋ผ๋Š” ์ตœ์•…์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ๋„ ์ผˆ๋ฆฌ์ตœ๊ฐ€ ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ๋น„๊ฒฐ์€ ์„ฑ๊ณตํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๋งˆ์ธ๋“œ๋ฅผ ๋‚ด ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๋งŒ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ผˆ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด ๋‹น์‹ ๋„ ๋ฌด์กฐ๊ฑด ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๊ฐ€๋ฉด ๋ฉ€๋ฆฌ ๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
     
     

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